Goodbye Page 3

21/01/2015
First things first, this isn't a light hearted, make up related post. This is me defending my opinion in regards to celebrating The Sun pulling Page 3.  I've received a lot of adversity about my opinion on social media by people I view to be grossly misinformed and felt it appropriate to air my opinion in a way that doesn't limit me to 140 characters. I first signed the 'No More Page 3' petition started by Lucy Holmes in 2013 and have closely followed the progress since.

I am baffled. What concerns me the most is the amount of girls, women and friends that have said they feel sad page 3 has gone. ARE.YOU.SERIOUS. As a woman of the world and someone very passionate about women's rights, I for one am horrified that my fellow females are disgruntled by this huge breakthrough in equal rights for women. Nudity and nipples are not the issue here. The issue is the damaging effects this desensitisation will have on children and the way women are viewed by men. It isn't the pictures themselves that are they issue, but the negative connotation associated with having your cheerios with a side of ''Leanne From Bolton has E cups''.

The Sun first started running topless images of women in the 1960's, and since then women have worked harder than ever for equal rights in the workplace. Despite this, there is still a huge gap in what men and women are paid for the same role and I feel 'Page 3 society' is partially to blame. If we as a society are ever going to make changes for both ourselves and our daughters we need to stop  accepting the objectification of women in the media and day to day life and start wanting more for ourselves than just being admired for having a nice pair of tits.

Boobs. Not a big deal. I'm not a prude nor do I find boobs remotely offensive. I understand they are nice to look at and are often a sexual stimulant for men, I get that. My issue in regards to The Sun is the casual way they are portrayed in the paper as if it's the norm. IT ISN'T. Women being objectified and being viewed as nothing more than sexual objects designed to sexually gratify men is the single most damaging message to send to both impressionable young girls and boys alike. Girls assuming getting their boobs out is a lucrative way to make their way in life and don't study as hard as a result. It's very much the ''I wanna be a WAG'' mindset that needs to stop. Girls should be aspiring to be CEO's, doctors, scientists and generally wanting more for themselves than making a living being half naked. You can be attractive and have a brain you know, it doesn't have to be one or the other.

On the flip side, if a fully grown female makes an informed decision to enter the adult entertainment industry, good for her. She's made that decision for herself, not because it seems like an easy option because she was exposed to it as a child by her father flipping through The Sun at the breakfast table. I'm not against pornography or top shelf magazines, each to their own. I believe these to be the appropriate outlet for these types of images not a family newspaper! Nudity is not a dirty word and I definitely don't believe women should have to hide their sexuality or dress modestly all the time, but raising the bar in terms of how highly we value ourselves and our bodies needs to be addressed. If a 12 year old girl is conditioned to believe she is worth nothing more than her physical appearance and soul purpose in life is to provide sexual gratification for men through her body and her appearance, how hard is she likely to try at school? What will she likely aspire for in life besides a flat stomach and double d's? What message will she then pass on to her children in regards to equal rights for women? And thus continues the viscous cycle.

Come on girls, wake up. Raise the bar, if not for yourself but for your children. 

Fitbit review

13/01/2015
I was so excited to get my Fitbit for Christmas and I haven't been disappointed! What is a Fitbit I hear you ask? Well...
A Fitbit is a rubber wristband that has an electronic device installed that tracks your steps, calorie burn and activity throughout the day by recording your heart rate.  It then sends all the information to the dongle on your laptop/app on your phone that allows you to review your progress. Perfect if you're looking to improve your fitness or lose weight. (Plus it comes in pink - I was sold).

I've yo-yo dieted for most of my adult life. I go through phases of eating and exercising well the eating nothing but pizza and not moving off the sofa. So yeah my fitness journey peaks and troughs...but having a Fitbit has changed everything. By seeing what calories I've burned through normal day to day living and exercise it allows me to monitor how many calories I eat - thus resulting in weight loss. I've lost 3lbs so far since using the Fitbit and it's really just down to the fact it encourages me to be more active, making sure I get in my daily 10,000 steps but also make wiser choices with food relative to the exercise I've done that day. It's great if you are an athlete too (not that I know anything about that) as it'll track your progress on walks, runs and even swimming!


It. is. brilliant. The LED lights on the front will show you how close to your daily target you are (typically 10,000 steps, 30 active minutes and walking 5 miles) which is motivational in itself in encouraging you to keep going till you've smashed your target. An added bonus is you can comfortably wear it while you sleep, and once it's in sleep mode it can track your sleep pattern. It'll tell you next morning the duration you slept and how often you were restless. This is helpful if you're someone that suffers with insomnia or have issues sleeping and by learning what times during the night it happens can, over time eradicate anything that is interrupting your sleep. Game changer! (I'm a nerd and find this feature really interesting just because.)

It also has a silent alarm that when set can wake you gently by vibrating on your wrist at the time you set it to, I have yet to use this feature so I can't really comment but if you're someone that is sick at the sound of your alarm every morning this could be a great bonus and a much nicer way to be woken up each morning.


All in all I see myself and my Fitbit being very happy together. It's comfortable to wear and the electronic part can be removed and inserted into different coloured wristbands - hola colour coordination! Ideal for atheletes and anyone looking to get fitter/lose weight the Fitbit is £79.99 from Boots, Argos etc,